Feminine Embodiment, Dating & Relationship Coaching

Do you want a relationship that feels as solid as the life you’ve built?

Without support, high-achieving women often:

  • Stay stuck in survival mode—overthinking, people-pleasing, emotionally drained

  • Attract or maintain misaligned partnerships that mirror old wounds

  • Struggle to trust themselves or speak their truth

  • Feel resentful, touch-starved, or like they have to choose between success and love

  • Stay in loops of over-functioning while secretly longing to be held

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Imagine Love That Feels Safe, Sexy, and Fully Aligned

Whether you're calling in aligned love or deepening intimacy in your current relationship, this is the work that helps you finally feel safe in your body, clear in your choices, and deeply connected in love and life.

Della Murphy embodying soft power and emotional clarity through trauma-informed coaching.

Guiding Women Back to Their feminine Power

Hi, I’m Della—and I help high-achieving women embody their feminine energy to attract and keep aligned, secure relationships.

With 10 years in corporate leadership and over 6 years as a trauma-informed coach, I bring a rare mix of grounded strategy and deep somatic healing to this work.
This isn’t about dating tips or better communication skills.
It’s about rewiring your nervous system to feel safe with Intimacy, connection, and being fully seen.

I work with women who are ready to:

  • Break painful relationship patterns

  • Regulate their nervous systems so love doesn’t feel like a threat

  • Reclaim their voice, their body, and their turn-on

  • Attract (or deepen with) emotionally available, aligned partners

  • Lead from their embodied feminine—not from fear, fantasy, or over-functioning

Because when you feel safe in your body, you show up differently in love.
Not to chase it, but to receive it.

Work With Me

  • Break painful patterns and create the kind of love that feels safe, sexy, and secure—from the inside out.

    1:1 COACHING

  • A live, guided group experience for women ready to release old patterns, reconnect with their truth, and lead from embodied power.

  • A calming, two-step ritual to help you regulate your nervous system, release overwhelm, and return to yourself.

    THE GROUNDING GUIDE

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“Life changing. The transformation I have had after working with Della, now on two occasions have been phenomenal. Della is truly gifted in her coaching and has helped me level up in so many aspects of my life. Not only during coaching, but the skills I have taken away each time to help support myself beyond.”

— Rheanna

"I was stuck in my own head, constantly overthinking and doubting myself. Working with Della completely changed the way I see myself. Now I set boundaries, speak up for what I need, and finally feel like I’m living in alignment with who I truly am."

— Sarah

"Della’s coaching genuinely changed everything for me. I went from feeling invisible to feeling confident, and in control of my life. Della has this incredible way of making you feel seen and supported—I can’t thank her enough!"

– Emma

"Honestly, I was terrified to spend money on myself, but it ended up being the best thing I’ve ever done. For the first time, I’m living in alignment with my values and building relationships that actually reflect my worth. It’s been such a game-changer."

– Jessica

“If you’re struggling with self image, self-confidence and self-worth and haven't been able to find the guidance you’re looking for, see Della. She pays attention to your specific issues, helps you pinpoint what’s keeping you stuck and unblocks it.”

– Brodie

“I've experienced changes within myself internally, but other people have noticed too. My walking, talking, and posture have improved. The way I speak is a lot flowier. I am more laid back and less on edge. I also have a sense of belonging that I have never felt before. I don't feel like an outcast anymore.”

– Nicole

Free — relationship guide

Get clarity before entering a new relationship—or redefine your existing one.

Inside of this Free Guide:

  • Get clear, grounded, and sure of what you want

  • Understand where you’re out of alignment

  • Reconnect with your needs, wants, and values

  • 80 prompts for self-enquiry in relationship

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You don’t need to work harder at love—you need a way to feel safe receiving it.

This is your space to soften, heal, and reconnect with the version of you who knows she’s worthy of deep, secure love.