SECURE IN LOVE

You’ve built a life you’re proud of.

But love still feels like the one area you can’t ‘figure out’… no matter how self‑aware you are.

You’re exhausted by the cycle – the anxiety that hijacks your peace, the defensiveness that pushes people away, the painful patterns that repeat with different partners.

You can hold it all together at work.

But one text, one tone of voice, one misunderstanding… and you’re back in old patterns that don’t feel like the real you.

This isn’t that you’re “too much” or “not enough.”

It’s not that you’re broken.

It’s that your attachment blueprint – wired from your history and nervous system – is running the show.

Secure In Love is where that changes.

This is a 3‑month, private intensive where we move beyond understanding your patterns… into somatically rewiring them at the root, so secure love becomes your new normal.

If you’re single, it looks like:

• You keep attracting distant, avoidant, or non‑committal men.

• As soon as you start to like someone, anxiety takes over and you begin losing yourself.

• You accept crumbs or low‑effort behaviour because you’re scared of being “too much” and ending up alone.

• Your life starts orbiting around his attention – your mood rises and falls with his messages.

• You hide parts of yourself to seem “easygoing” or “chill,” shapeshifting into what you think he wants.

• You get hooked on potential and future fantasies, instead of the reality of how you feel now.

If you’re in a relationship, it looks like:

• Conflict turns into blow‑ups, shutdowns, or long stretches of tension and silence.

• You’ve slowly abandoned your own hobbies, passions, or friendships to pour your energy into the relationship.

• You tolerate things that don’t sit right because you’re scared that speaking up will cause a breakup.

• You’re stuck in the “should I stay or go?” loop and it’s draining your energy and clarity.

• You feel resentful because you over‑give and carry the emotional load, without equal effort in return.

• You’re waiting for your partner to change or for a feeling to magically return, hoping it will save things.

What you really want is simple:

If you’re single, you want to:

• Stop attracting unavailable men and finally meet someone who’s emotionally ready.

• Stay calm and grounded when you like someone, instead of spiralling or self‑abandoning.

• Know your worth and hold your standards, so you stop settling out of fear of being alone.

• Keep your life centred on you – your purpose, friendships, and joy – regardless of who you’re dating.

• Show up fully as yourself on dates, without shrinking, performing, or filtering your needs.

• Choose partners based on how they show up now, not on who you hope they might become.

If you’re in a relationship, you want to:

• Stop the cycles of blow‑up / shut‑down and be able to repair conflict with maturity and care.

• Reconnect with who you are outside the relationship, so you stop disappearing into it.

• Address disrespect or misalignment without fear, and feel safe standing for your needs.

• Get clear on whether this is healthy love or a pattern you’ve outgrown – and make a grounded decision.

• Create a balanced dynamic where effort, care, and emotional labour are shared.

• Stop waiting for them to change, and either build something secure together or walk away with self‑trust.

Why nothing has fully worked (yet)

You’ve likely already done a lot.

Therapy. Books. Podcasts. Dating advice. Maybe spiritual work.

Logically, you understand your patterns.

But in the moments that matter, your body still panics, shuts down, clings, or checks out.

That’s because most approaches speak to your mind… while your attachment blueprint lives in your nervous system, your identity, and the younger parts of you that learned love was not fully safe.

Until that rewires, the same pattern repeats with a different face.

Secure In Love works at the root – with your body, your inner child, your beliefs, and your boundaries – so your default in love becomes secure, not survival.

The Secure Love Framework™

How we move you from self‑abandonment to secure, embodied love

This is a 10‑session, 1:1 coaching journey structured in three phases:

Phase 1 – Awareness & Deconditioning (Sessions 1–3)

Goal: See the invisible patterns controlling your love life.

We map your attachment style, relationship history, and subconscious beliefs about love, men, and yourself.

You’ll finally understand why you attract certain dynamics and why your reactions feel so intense.

This takes you out of confusion and self‑blame and into clear, compassionate awareness.

Phase 2 – Regulation & Self‑Reconnection (Sessions 4–6)

Goal: Build unshakable safety and security within yourself.

Through somatic work and inner child processes, we soothe the part of you that feels unsafe, rejected, or “too much.”

We work with mother and father imprints, stored grief, and old emotional pain, so you stop repeating those dynamics in your current relationships.

You’ll learn to anchor in your body, feel your feelings without drowning in them, and stay with yourself when you’re triggered – instead of abandoning yourself for connection.

Phase 3 – Embodiment & Expansion (Sessions 7–10)

Goal: Show up fully, set standards, and receive healthy love.

We crystallise your needs, boundaries, and standards in love, and practice expressing them without guilt.

We open your capacity to receive love, attention, and effort from aligned partners, without sabotaging or minimising yourself.

You’ll step into dating or relating from wholeness – choosing from desire and alignment, not from fear or scarcity.

This isn’t about becoming a “perfect” partner.

It’s about becoming a secure one – within yourself first, and then in love.

What’s included in your 3‑month Secure In Love container:

– 10 x Private 1:1 Sessions (up to 90 minutes each)

Deep, somatic and coaching sessions where we work with your real‑time dating / relationship situations and your deeper patterns.

– Personalised Nervous System Tools

Simple, targeted practices to help you ground, regulate, and respond differently when triggers arise.

– WhatsApp Support (Mon–Thurs)

For in‑the‑moment guidance between sessions – navigating texts, dates, conflicts, or emotional spirals with support instead of on your own.

– Integration Notes & Roadmaps

You receive notes and clear focus points after sessions, so you always know what you’re integrating and how to apply it in daily life.

– A Safe, Regulated Space

A grounded, non‑judgmental container where all of you is welcome – especially the parts that feel needy, ashamed, or “too much.”

This environment is what lets your system finally relax and rewire.

By the end of our 3 months together, you will:

– Feel calmer and more secure within yourself, regardless of who is or isn’t in your life.

– Understand your patterns in love and know how to choose differently, instead of repeating the same story.

– Be able to communicate needs, boundaries, and desires clearly, without collapsing, attacking, or over‑explaining.

– Stop chasing emotional breadcrumbs, over‑functioning, or settling for almost‑good‑enough.

– Be anchored in your own life again – your friendships, passions, body, and joy.

– Date or be in relationship from desire and self‑respect, not from fear of being alone.

This is about becoming the woman who no longer abandons herself for love – and from that place, can finally create and sustain the secure love she’s always wanted.

Investment and next step

Investment for the 3‑month Secure In Love intensive:

3,500 AUD

Payment plan: 6 x 600 AUD

This work becomes the foundation of every relationship you have from here.

If your body is saying “yes” as you read this…

The next step is a Clarity Call.

This is a 20‑minute, no‑pressure conversation where we will:

– Map the specific pattern you’re in right now.

– Get clear on what’s actually driving it.

– See if Secure In Love is the right container to support you.

If it is, I’ll share how we can start together.

If not, you’ll still leave with more clarity than you came with.

Ready to become secure in love, with yourself and with someone who can actually meet you?

Book Your Clarity Call