The Self-Reclamation System™
For the woman who’s done the work, but still doesn’t feel free.
A 10-week live healing journey for women ready to break trauma-driven patterns, come home to their bodies, and lead from self-trust—not survival.
You’ve journaled, meditated, maybe even gone to therapy.
But still...
You shut down when things get hard
You spiral into overthinking, anxiety, or self-doubt
You say yes when you mean no
You hold it all together—but feel hollow inside
This isn’t because you’re doing something wrong. It’s because healing isn’t just about thinking differently.
It’s about feeling safe in your body.
That’s what we do inside The Self-Reclamation System.
What This Program Is Really About
This isn’t a course.
It’s not just another group program.
It’s a deep somatic healing journey for the woman who is ready to:
Stop living from survival mode
Break the cycles of over-giving, shutdown, and emotional reactivity
Reconnect with her body, boundaries, and voice
Become a self-resourced woman—calm, sovereign, and fully expressed
The Self-Reclamation
by the end of the 10 weeks, you will:
Regulate your nervous system and stay grounded under pressure
Hold boundaries with clarity—without guilt, fawning, or collapse
Feel emotionally steady (no more spirals or shutdowns)
Trust your decisions and desires—from your body, not your fear
Express your truth clearly and calmly
Release shame, perfectionism, and survival-based patterns
Feel safe in your softness, in your pleasure, and in your power
This is trauma-informed embodiment work that changes your nervous system—so you can change your life.
What’s Included
A 10-week somatic healing journey to help you reclaim your emotional safety, personal power, and embodied self-trust.
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Real-time healing, somatic guidance, and deep emotional support inside a safe, sacred container.
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Gently reconnect to your body through practices focused on your heart, womb, voice, and senses.
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Simple, trauma-informed techniques to process emotions, regulate your nervous system, and build deep inner safety.
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Private space to be witnessed, supported, and celebrated—without judgment or performance.
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Track your growth, explore your truth, and stay grounded through powerful yet gentle prompts.
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Revisit the teachings and practices anytime you need to come back to yourself.
Benefits
Benefits
By committing to this journey, you’ll unlock:
Why This Work Matters (and Why Now)
If you’re still overthinking everything…
Still people-pleasing, then resenting…
Still feeling disconnected from your body, your voice, or your desires…
This isn’t your fault.
These patterns were learned.
They’re stored in your nervous system—not your mindset.
The Self-Reclamation System™ helps you:
Heal at the root, through your body
Rewire your sense of safety, worth, and power
Finally feel free to be who you are—without apology
FAQs
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Healing isn’t just about understanding your patterns—it’s about fully embodying new ways of being. This program bridges the gap between awareness and deep integration, so you don’t just know what needs to change—you become the woman who lives it. There are always layers. I have been on this journey for years and still enjoy deepening coming home to mysel fnad body.
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Reclaiming yourself is not selfish—it’s necessary. When you are fully resourced, you show up more powerfully in your relationships, work, and life. You can’t pour from an empty cup, and this journey ensures you never have to again.
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That’s exactly what this program teaches. You will be guided through a step-by-step process to develop emotional self-sufficiency, self-trust, and inner resourcing—so you no longer look outside yourself for validation or security.
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This isn’t just about talking—it’s about rewiring your patterns at the root. The combination of somatic healing, embodiment work, and live support allows you to shift old wounds on a deep, lasting level.
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Absolutely. If you find yourself in cycles of over-giving, attracting emotionally unavailable partners, or fearing rejection, this program will help you heal the wounds behind those patterns and reclaim your power in love. I also have a seperate program for Aligned Love specifically for this also, check it out.
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This is an investment in your future, well-being, and alignment. The cost of staying stuck is far greater.
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All sessions will be recorded, and you’ll have ongoing support inside our private Slack community so you can stay engaged in the process even if you miss a call.
A Message From Della
For years, I outsourced my worth. I chased love, approval, and success—thinking that if I just did more, looked the part, or kept the peace, I’d finally feel whole.
But that version of me was surviving. Not thriving.
Everything shifted when I began to reclaim the parts of myself I had exiled—through somatic healing, shadow work, and embodiment. I didn’t just “improve” myself—I came home to myself. I learned how to feel safe in my body, trust my emotions, and root into a worth that had nothing to prove.
Now, I guide women through that same sacred return.
Helping them release survival patterns, heal at the root, and become deeply self-resourced—emotionally, energetically, and soulfully.
Your reclamation is not about becoming someone new. It’s about remembering who you’ve always been.
And I would be honored to walk this journey with you.
With love,
Della x
This Is Your Time
You already know what doesn’t work.
This is your chance to do something deeper.
Something that lasts.
Something that meets you where you are—and helps you rise.
Become the self-resourced woman you were always meant to be.
Held. Heard. Whole.