The Self-Reclamation System™
For women ready to stop surviving and start truly living.
The 10-Week Self-Reclamation System™ is a group healing program to help you come back to your true self—without chasing or proving your worth or staying stuck in old patterns.
The Longer You Wait, the Deeper the Disconnection
You’ve done the mindset work. You’ve journaled, reflected, even tried to “be positive.” But deep down, something still feels off—like there’s a deeper wound running the show.
You keep repeating the same patterns in love, in your self-worth, in your emotions… and you’re tired. Tired of holding it all together. Tired of feeling too much and not enough at the same time. Tired of a life that looks fine on the outside but feels hollow on the inside.
And if you don’t change… The burnout deepens. The shame grows heavier. The disconnect becomes normal. Then, you can’t hear your own truth anymore..
After 10 Weeks, You’ll Feel Like You Again
This isn’t about changing who you are—it’s about coming back to the real you. The version of you that existed before the world told you to shrink, stay quiet, or play small.
The Self-Reclamation System:
✔ Feel steady with your emotions You can handle big feelings without shutting down, spiraling, or needing someone else to fix it.
✔ Trust yourself You make decisions from a calm, clear place—because you believe in your own voice.
✔ Feel at home in your body You stop ignoring what you feel. You listen to your body and move through the world with presence.
✔ Balance your energy You don’t always have to give, do, or prove. You rest when you need to and act when it’s right.
✔ Express yourself freely You speak up without guilt. You take up space with softness, clarity, and quiet strength.
✔ Know your worth You stop trying to earn love or approval. You know you’re enough—just as you are.
The Path to Self-Reclamation
Come back to your truth—and create a life that matches it.
This is a sacred return to yourself—but it’s also a clear, supported path to becoming a deeply self-resourced woman—it’s learning how to live from your own power, with steady support every step of the way.
Step 1: Join the Self-Reclamation System™
Save your spot and step into a safe space for deep healing, support, and personal growth.
Step 2: Attend Weekly Teachings & Embodiment Sessions
Each week, you’ll join live calls where we’ll use gentle body-based tools to calm your nervous system, release stuck emotions, and build your inner strength.
Step 3: Reclaim Your Power and Live It
You’ll stop repeating old patterns, start trusting yourself again, and move through life feeling calm, confident, and fully you.
What’s Included
The Self-Reclamation System™ is a 10-week live healing journey designed to help you reclaim your power by healing at the root—through your body, heart, and voice. Through deep emotional work, somatic healing, and self-resourcing practices, you’ll come home to yourself, reconnect with your inner authority, and begin living as the self-resourced woman you were always meant to be—grounded, whole, and led from within.
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10 Weekly Live Group Calls – Deep support, healing, and personal breakthroughs in a sacred container.
Real-Time Coaching & Feedback – Get direct guidance as you navigate your self-reclamation journey.
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Somatic Healing Practices – Regulate your emotions, release stored trauma, and feel safe in your body.
Inner Child & Shadow Work – Heal deep patterns of self-abandonment and reconnect with your wholeness.
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Heart & Womb Connection – Reclaim your emotional and energetic sovereignty by connecting to your feminine core.
Throat & Expression Work – Open your voice, set boundaries with confidence, and own your full self-expression.
Pleasure & Sensual Reclamation – Step into full ownership of your body, desire, and personal power.
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Private Slack Channel – A space for real-time connection, accountability, and sisterhood.
Sacred Witnessing & Reflection – Be fully seen, supported, and celebrated throughout your transformation.
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Emotional Self-Regulation Techniques – Learn to meet your own emotional needs without seeking external validation.
Integration & Reflection Practices – Deepen your transformation so it becomes your natural way of being.
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A Structured Pathway to Self-Sovereignty – Move through the layers of healing in a clear, intentional way.
Benefits
Benefits
By committing to this journey, you’ll unlock:
Why This Work Matters (and Why Now)
You’re tired of doing it all alone. You’ve tried the mindset work. You’ve journaled. You’ve read the books.
But something still feels stuck—like you’re always overthinking, overgiving, or trying to prove you’re enough.
That’s because these patterns don’t live in your mind. They live in your body. In the part of you that learned it wasn’t safe to slow down, speak up, or just be yourself.
That’s why I created The Self-Reclamation System™.
It’s a 10-week live group experience to help you stop abandoning yourself—and become the kind of woman who leads herself with trust, calm, and power from within.
We do this through:
✔ Attachment healing to tend to the deeper wounds that shaped you.
✔ Nervous system work to help you feel safe enough to soften.
✔ Embodiment practices to reconnect with your body, your voice, and your truth.
✔ Live coaching and support—so you never have to do it alone.
FAQs
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Healing isn’t just about understanding your patterns—it’s about fully embodying new ways of being. This program bridges the gap between awareness and deep integration, so you don’t just know what needs to change—you become the woman who lives it. There are always layers. I have been on this journey for years and still enjoy deepening coming home to mysel fnad body.
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Reclaiming yourself is not selfish—it’s necessary. When you are fully resourced, you show up more powerfully in your relationships, work, and life. You can’t pour from an empty cup, and this journey ensures you never have to again.
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That’s exactly what this program teaches. You will be guided through a step-by-step process to develop emotional self-sufficiency, self-trust, and inner resourcing—so you no longer look outside yourself for validation or security.
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This isn’t just about talking—it’s about rewiring your patterns at the root. The combination of somatic healing, embodiment work, and live support allows you to shift old wounds on a deep, lasting level.
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Absolutely. If you find yourself in cycles of over-giving, attracting emotionally unavailable partners, or fearing rejection, this program will help you heal the wounds behind those patterns and reclaim your power in love. I also have a seperate program for Aligned Love specifically for this also, check it out.
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This is an investment in your future, well-being, and alignment. The cost of staying stuck is far greater.
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All sessions will be recorded, and you’ll have ongoing support inside our private Slack community so you can stay engaged in the process even if you miss a call.
A Message From Della
For years, I outsourced my worth. I chased love, approval, and success—thinking that if I just did more, looked the part, or kept the peace, I’d finally feel whole.
But that version of me was surviving. Not thriving.
Everything shifted when I began to reclaim the parts of myself I had exiled—through somatic healing, shadow work, and embodiment. I didn’t just “improve” myself—I came home to myself. I learned how to feel safe in my body, trust my emotions, and root into a worth that had nothing to prove.
Now, I guide women through that same sacred return.
Helping them release survival patterns, heal at the root, and become deeply self-resourced—emotionally, energetically, and soulfully.
Your reclamation is not about becoming someone new. It’s about remembering who you’ve always been.
And I would be honored to walk this journey with you.
With love,
Della x
Ready to Begin Your Journey?
The moment you choose you, everything begins to shift.
You open the door to deep healing. To embodied self-trust. To the unshakable knowing that you are already whole.
Love. Connection. Wholeness.
They’re not things you have to chase. They are your natural state—once you reclaim the woman you were always meant to be—a self-resourced woman, anchored from within..